Therapy for Trauma, PTSD, Anxiety and Depression
Therapy for Trauma, PTSD, Anxiety and Depression

Internal family systems (IFS) informed talking therapy

the effectiveness of talk therapy

What is internal family systems (IFS)

Internal family systems (IFS) is a model of therapy developed by Dr Richard Schwartz. It is concerned with the “family” of different parts of yourself that live inside you, not with the people who form your external family. Internal family systems views the human psyche as made up of multiple 'parts' or sub-personalities who play different roles in our day to day functioning. The belief is that all parts have a positive intent - to help us survive regardless of what life throws our way.

Some parts, known as 'protectors' work tirelessly in a proactive way to keep us safe and functioning. These usually feel healthy and constructive (i.e. the 'organised' part who makes to do lists, or the 'self-care' part that insists we go the gym). However, sometimes our parts take on extreme roles and this can be detrimental to our wellbeing. When this happens, they are often unappreciated for the work they do and they may be in conflict with other parts in our system. It may feel like we are self sabotaging or acting in ways that limit our potential (i.e. the 'depressed' part who can't get out of bed some days or the 'anxious' part who avoids social situations).

An internal family systems (IFS) informed approach to talking therapy is a kind and gentle way of exploring your current way of being. This deep mind and body introspection help us to understand and address the root cause of any symptom or behaviour. IFS informed talking therapy is particularly helpful for alleviating PTSD, anxiety and depression and is extremely effective when combined with EMDR. Once we have identified the problem (part) to be worked on, I will then integrate relevant IFS techniques and strategies to help you maintain focus and move towards your therapy goals.

What will we talk about when exploring internal family systems?

Our aim is to welcome all parts of your system and ensure they feel heard, understood and valued. This process in itself is calming for our inner psyche as it provides us with some clarity and perspective around the symptoms that brought us to therapy.

Parts or sub-personalities that we deem 'problematic' are often protecting us from unresolved stress and trauma experienced in earlier years. They adopt a 'never again' attitude. Never again will I... get hurt, trust someone, be lied to, risk failure etc. Traumatic memories that remain unresolved are often easily activated by here and now life experience, resulting in the unwanted symptoms or behaviours that bring us to therapy. Where appropriate we can pair IFS with EMDR therapy to desensitise and reprocess any distressing past memories that are identified when learning the history of your parts.

Internal family systems informed talking therapy enables clients to explore inner thoughts and feelings without fear of judgement or bias. I offer a relaxed client-centred approach and believe that we have an innate human instinct to grow and self-actualise, even in the most challenging circumstances. I will work with you to find a treatment plan that suits your individual requirements and has the capacity to meet your goals for therapy.
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What you can expect from internal family systems (IFS) informed talking therapy

  • I will support you to develop enhanced self-awareness and help you to identify what underpins the issues or concerns you bring to therapy.
  • We will work holistically so that you understand symptoms, triggers and automatic body-brain responses. 
  • You will realise the intended positive intentions of behaviours, thoughts and feelings and learn how to communicate effectively with your different parts, so that you can respond to difficult situations from a place of true self and not a defence stance

This ensures you are empowered to take greater control in the future when life throws unexpected challenges your way. My goal is to help you get to know yourself. Because the better you know yourself, the better you can problem-solve.

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